The signs and symptoms of depression are often different in children, teens, adults, and seniors. And sometimes, they’re easy to miss. Here’s what to look for.
Genetics. Stressful life events. Some medications. Levels of certain brain chemicals. How your brain cells grow and work. Trauma. Any one or a combination of these things can play a role in depression. So, it makes sense that depression affects so many people. Nearly one-third — 29% — of American adults have been diagnosed with depression at some point in their lives. And 15% of American kids ages 12 to 17 are affected by major depression.
Depression is defined as a sad or low mood and a lack of interest in everyday activities that lasts for two weeks or more, says Dennis M. Popeo, MD. Popeo is a clinical professor of psychiatry at NYU Grossman School of Medicine. It can look different in different people and age groups. But one thing is true for everyone: Treatment is really important.
That’s because depression doesn’t only affect your mind or mood. Over time, it can also harm your physical health. People with depression may have:
To get treatment, you must be diagnosed. That calls for knowing the signs and symptoms of depression. Some are common across all age groups. Small or large changes in eating habits, sleeping patterns, and weight are common signs of depression at every age. So are pulling away from social activities and losing interest in things that you used to enjoy. But there are other clues that are more unique to different age groups. Here’s what to look for.
Depression doesn’t care about age. The same list of things that can set an adult up for depression holds true for children, says Laura Bonomo, PhD. Bonomo is a psychologist and founder and executive director of Abridged Psychology. A child’s mental well-being can also be impacted by friendship issues, social isolation, or learning differences.
Another challenge is children may have a hard time understanding more basic feelings, like anger or sadness. (Think about tantrums over tiny frustrations.) So, it’s unlikely a child understands they feel depressed. Keep an eye out for persistent or extreme changes in moods or behaviors, such as:
A child doesn’t have to have all these symptoms to be depressed. If you notice any of them, talk to your child’s healthcare provider. Ask about a screening and possible treatment. The most common treatments are child therapy, family therapy, or a combination of the two. In some cases, your doctor may suggest medication.
Therapy can have a positive impact for years to come, says Bonomo. “Treatment can help with the development of realistic, healthier thinking styles. [It can] help with friendship issues and set your child up for a happier and less emotionally turbulent life.”
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Moodiness at this age may seem like a guarantee. But it’s important to remember that depression is different from mere moodiness. To tell the difference between the two, think about these three things:
What are the common signs of depression at this age? They vary from person to person, but can include a few or more of the following:
Treatment is important at any age, but especially for teens. Each year, thousands of young people ages 15 to 24 die by suicide. It’s the second leading cause of death in adolescents, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).
Teens with depression may also be more likely to cope by using drugs and alcohol and having unprotected sex, says Bonomo. "They tend to gravitate toward other kids who have those same tendencies,” adds Bonomo. And they may feed off each other’s negativity.
A healthcare provider is trained to see the difference between depression and teen moodiness. If you’re worried your teen might have depression, talk to them and their pediatrician about doing an evaluation. Treatment plans may include:
Adults with a personal or family history of depression or anxiety are more likely to go through depression than those without one. Negative life events, such as a divorce or job loss, may also raise their risk. And sometimes, positive events – like becoming a new parent or sending a child to college – may trigger depression too.
Remember, depression symptoms aren’t the same for everyone. One adult might feel sluggish and exhausted. Another might sign up for a ton of activities, hoping to distract from how they’re feeling, says Bonomo. In addition to big changes in sleeping, eating, and weight, and loss of interest in socializing and hobbies, symptoms of adult depression can include:
If you or someone you know has been experiencing several of these symptoms in the last couple of weeks and the symptoms have interfered with daily functioning or cause emotional distress, depression may be the cause. As with teens, untreated depression can lead adults to unhealthy coping strategies, such as substance use. And unfortunately, suicide is more common among men in this age group: Middle-aged white men have the highest rate of suicide deaths in the United States.
If you think you’re depressed, tell your healthcare provider. They can create a treatment plan, which may include therapy as well as prescription antidepressants. It may take a bit of trial and error to find the right medication and dose. Be sure to follow the medication plan closely. Tell your doctor how you’re feeling. And do not stop taking an antidepressant without first talking to your doctor.
“A lot of people mischaracterize their depression as a normal part of getting older,” says Dr. Popeo. “But depression is not a normal part of aging.” Instead, some issues that are more common as we age may be at play. Some examples:
Often, “there isn’t one specific thing,” says Dr. Popeo. Instead, several factors can contribute to an older adult’s depression. The signs of depression in older adults are similar to those of other adults. They also include:
Diagnosing depression in older adults can be a challenge. They may have other health issues that cause depression-like symptoms. Or a health issue may put them at greater risk for depression. Talking to a healthcare provider can help untangle what's going on.
Getting treatment is key to improving an older adult’s quality of life and health. Older adults are more likely to develop a physical illness when they have depression, according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Again, suicide is a real risk of untreated depression. In the U.S., the number of deaths by suicide in people aged 65 and older has increased at a higher rate than in any other age group.
Settling on the right treatment plan can take time and patience. Older adults tend to be more sensitive to the medications, according to the NIMH. They may need lower or less frequent doses of antidepressants. At the same time, they’re more likely to miss a dose or take too much. And older people are more likely to be juggling multiple conditions and medications. This puts them at risk for drug interactions.
The NIMH advises older adults to get all their prescriptions at the same pharmacy. That way the pharmacist can help flag possible drug interactions. The pharmacist will also want to work closely with the doctor to track medications and how well they’re working. In fact, sticking with one pharmacy is great advice for all ages. More support is a good thing!
Article sources:
Depressive disorders: MSD Manual Professional Version
Depression rates: Gallup
Mental health in the US: Mental Health America
Depression and diabetes: Diabetes Care
Depression and heart disease: Frontiers in Psychology
Depression and suicide: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
Suicide statistics: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
Emotions and the brain: Frontiers in Psychology
Suicide and older adults: National Council on Aging
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